Wendell's Diary

For much of my life, I held onto a story—the story of Pygmalion. Like the mythical sculptor, I crafted a vision of what I hoped to find: a girl who would connect deeply with me, who would see my work, and who would share my life. My creations—videos, blogs, reflections—were an effort to sculpt a world where this connection could come alive. But life, as I’ve learned, doesn’t always follow the stories we hold onto. Over time, I’ve found myself shifting from the rigid perfectionism of Pygmalion to the openness and patience of the Philosophy of Emergence. Letting go of the need to find “her” has been a journey in itself, one that’s brought me closer to understanding who I am and how I want to live. --- 1. The Story of Pygmalion in My Life For years, I saw myself as a modern-day Pygmalion. Instead of sculpting a statue, I crafted videos, blogs, and creative works designed to resonate with someone I hadn’t yet met. I imagined her seeing my work, understanding me deeply, and finding a connec...

In a world where traditional dating methods are constantly evolving, I’ve embarked on a unique journey to find my soulmate, Ivory. Instead of using conventional dating apps or social events, I’ve turned to YouTube and blogging to share my story, thoughts, and aspirations, hoping to connect with Ivory through the content I create. #### The Beginning of My Journey It all started with a deep desire to find someone who shares my philosophical outlook and values. I envisioned Ivory as someone who not only appreciates deep, meaningful conversations but also resonates with the ideas and reflections I share through my content. This realization led me to a novel approach: creating videos and blog posts aimed at reaching Ivory. #### Creating Content with Purpose Each piece of content I produce is crafted with Ivory in mind. From philosophical discussions to personal reflections and love letters, every post and video is an attempt to communicate my thoughts and emotions. By sharing my journey and...

**Introduction:** As technology continues to reshape our lives, it’s no surprise that online dating is evolving at an unprecedented pace. While dating apps have made it easier to connect with potential partners, they often fall short in fostering deep, emotional connections. Many users find the process of swiping through profiles impersonal and frustrating. So, what can we expect from the future of online dating, and how might it address these shortcomings? **The Challenges of Modern Dating:** Current online dating often feels like a game of chance, where users swipe through countless profiles based primarily on appearances. This method can lead to shallow interactions, making it difficult to form meaningful connections. Many people report negative experiences, including ghosting, superficial conversations, and a lack of genuine engagement. The focus on quick judgments and superficial traits often leaves users feeling disconnected and discouraged. **Enhanced Matching Algorithms:** Look...

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